I am at a cross roads in my relationship with my boyfriend. To be honest, we don’t seem to be getting anywhere, and we are neither going backwards or forwards, and I am not sure where our relationship is going at all. When I come home from London escorts, I know that my boyfriend is going to sit there chilling out on the sofa. It is just like the relationship has no energy at all, and it really annoys me. On fact, there are times when I feel I want to kick his ass.
We have been together for a year now, and it is a bit like we are an old married couple. Yes he is lovely, and I adore him, but I swear I date senior gents at London escorts with more get up and go than my boyfriend. By now I would have thought that we should have some future goals to aim for, but that does not seem to be happening at all. I have got all this stuff that I would like to do, but we only keep talking about it, and it is not doing us any good at all as a couple.
My boyfriend loves his family. He really does have a great family, and when I have a few extra days off from London escorts, we are always popping down to Devon to see his family. That is fine, but I would like to have a little bit more in my life than that. We do not have a lot of bills to pay, so I cannot understand why he does not want to save up some money to buy an investment property. I got so fed up recently that I told him that it was what I was going to do. He just nodded and said a okay.
I don’t want to end up with a guy who does not have any ambitions at all. He is like a sweet puppy dog who follows me around. It has gone on for such a long time that I feel we are at a crossroads. We either stay together or we move on with our relationship in a different way. There are two ways we can go. Splitting up is one of them, and the other one is staying together, but he would need to change. I simply cannot wait for life to start, and that is what I feel I am doing at the moment. My life seems to be going to work at London escorts, and coming home to do nothing.
Making decisions in any relationship is hard and I would love to say that it would be easy for us, but it will not be. Our relationship is packed with plus points. For instance he does not mind me working for London escorts, and he is a genuine person. That is a nice change for me. But on the negative side, I find it hard to cope with the fact that he is a bit of a sissy boy, and does not really go for anything in life. That is the kind of guy I like to hang out with,but I am not sure how I am going to get him to change. Perhaps the truth is that my boyfriend does not want to change, and that he is happy in his own little world. Can our worlds meet? I am not sure about that at all.